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Originally posted by m.blade:
My parents were always together i mean relationship wise. Something happened which i wont say here but they had to live in seperate houses and me and my brother lived with my mom so
I have this aspect, and when I was younger my parents weren't in the same country for the first 3 years of my life.
My dad had went to the USA to get a job. My mom in our country worked long hours and I was stuck mostly with relatives until she came to pick me up. I only made two visits to my dad in the USA, then we all moved there to be together.
I became very emotionally independent, and grew up fast in that sense. I take most of the responsibilities of taking care of my parents health in a way.
My older sister, which is my half-sister, has this as well. My mom divorced her dad, before my sister turned 1. She had to grow up fast and was really unhappy when my mom married, actually my mom hid her pregnancy with me and her marriage to my dad until after they were married. I think my sister secretly thinks I ruined her life. lol
You just have to go with the flow in this aspect. Just let it play out, because either you will find yourself being able to handle situations or not.